Little things that mean so much
Here are a few strategies suggested by most therapists that I’ve read somewhere in improving one’s depression in relationship and also from my personal experience.
1. Sweet Surrender
Whenever we have an argument or disagreements over little things I always see to it that I lose and give up even if she’s the one who’s supposed to lose. It’s my way of saying I love you so much even if it means surrendering my being the man of the house. To me it’s the sweetest thing I can do.
Whenever we have an argument or disagreements over little things I always see to it that I lose and give up even if she’s the one who’s supposed to lose. It’s my way of saying I love you so much even if it means surrendering my being the man of the house. To me it’s the sweetest thing I can do.
2. Surprise her something
Sometimes I would surprise her of an item that she really want like flowers, ice cream, red wine and other stuff that she really appreciate and will be followed by an intimate thing-yehey.
Sometimes I would surprise her of an item that she really want like flowers, ice cream, red wine and other stuff that she really appreciate and will be followed by an intimate thing-yehey.
3. Share in house chores
Sometimes I do things she usually do like washing the dishes, doing the laundry, prepare our meal, give bath to our baby and putting on his diaper and changing him and fixing the bed those sort of things, is my way saying to her that I do love her and I will do anything for her.
Sometimes I do things she usually do like washing the dishes, doing the laundry, prepare our meal, give bath to our baby and putting on his diaper and changing him and fixing the bed those sort of things, is my way saying to her that I do love her and I will do anything for her.
4. Corny one liner
Whenever there is a chance I always whisper to my wife’s ear I love you, especially when I kiss her and Thank you when giving me little things like fixing my (baon) food for my work, and saying you’re not beautiful – you are drop dead gorgeous, something like that, that will make her underpants fell down. Seriously it means a lot to my wife and I do it because I truly love her and care for her.
Whenever there is a chance I always whisper to my wife’s ear I love you, especially when I kiss her and Thank you when giving me little things like fixing my (baon) food for my work, and saying you’re not beautiful – you are drop dead gorgeous, something like that, that will make her underpants fell down. Seriously it means a lot to my wife and I do it because I truly love her and care for her.
5. Good habit of kiss (sabay) with a hug
Day in and day out I always make it a point to kiss my wife with a very tight hug every day, from waking up in the morning, before letting her go to her work, upon fetching her up from her work, and while watching tele-novelas, until we are about to go to sleep there will be some kissing and hugging that will happen. It’s like second nature to me.
Day in and day out I always make it a point to kiss my wife with a very tight hug every day, from waking up in the morning, before letting her go to her work, upon fetching her up from her work, and while watching tele-novelas, until we are about to go to sleep there will be some kissing and hugging that will happen. It’s like second nature to me.
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